We live in a world that is competitive. To some degree competition is healthy and necessary, and it helps us perform at our best. But when it goes too far, we end up promoting ourselves at the expense of other people. We end up more concerned with own status and position than loving our neighbour as ourselves.
Ask the Lord to show you where your attitude towards other people needs to change.
If you want to read further, consider Jesus’ warning to the Pharisees in Luke 14:7-11.